Actually, Bliss, nobody "needs" to be corrected. They know when they're acting up, or will soon find out.
Poor behaviour within your proximity, however, is always a tip-off that someone else might correct what they're thinking, saying, and doing.
I can be so naughty at this. Rather than sharing my own experience I can use that as a way of telling someone subtly what to do. Or is just outright tell someone. For example M was talking about emailing and emailing and I kept saying well you are going to have to phone. She kept saying emailing, I kept saying phone. I heard myself and stopped and instead asked what are you going to do? Email! Her prerogative and none of my business.
Similarly with T I so want her t be back in recovery and stop her pain, my sharing of my experience is motivated by that need for her and also because I'm feeling uncomfortable saying I am in recovery - I don't want it t sound self-righteous in any way whatsoever.
People with people huh! At least I would like for defective behaviours to be lifted. As I become aware of them and then only in God's time.
So much to write about but I know it'll be purely study evasion.
Byeee
Bliss
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p.s where is .RU - a regular reader but not since I've been slacking. Poop! Come back :)
